Here I am. Here to give you ideas. Here to keep you inspired! Here to remind you to spice things up out of the normal everyday routine. Relationships and Marriages can become too complicent when we let them sit for too long. Love is an action.We let routine take over…whilst LOVE the gets put on a backburner to soooo many things.
Life is busy….kids are put first….work is put first. Bump it up a notch! Take control. Throw some surprises in there to spark it up. Stir the pot. Be love.
1.) Be nice to them. Lol. No, but for realllll!
There is a reason I am going to go with this one first. I see it all too much on a daily basis. I don’t seem to have this problem myself. I don’t have it in me. Yet, I watch sooo many couples I know treat each other like garbage. Even if they think they are being funny.
Name calling, cold shoulders, dirty looks. Become aware how often you do this. Start bringing to nice back. One smile at a time
2.) Surprise them with their favorite candy bar.
3.) Cook their favorite meal. (That you are capable of re-creating.)
4.) Pop popcorn and watch some of your favorite movies from when you were kids.
5.)Tell them how grateful you are for them, and everything they do for you! Practice gratitude….always always alwayss!
6.) Make them pancakes for breakfast at random!!! Pancakes are the bomb!
7.) Suggest board game night!
In front of the fireplace? With a glass of wine? Or possible whiskey for your fella. Snacks? Non-alcohol fun time? Sub for pizza?
8.) Pizza night. Make pizza! Cuz pizza pizza pizza!
(Don’t worry they make gluten-free dough these days….refer to organic section of your local grocery store for that. )
9.) Ice cream Night! Brownie Sundaes?
10.) That one thing they’ve needed for forever but haven’t gotten around to purhasing it. Spoil em!
11.) Spontaneous back massage! Everyone is falling apart. Life is rough….and don’t go cheap on em! Put in a good effort sport!
12.) If you really are too lazy for 11.) Spontaneous neck message whilst watching night time tv. This is also great for headaches. Ask your other half what points of pressure help relieve migrine symptoms the best for them.
13.) If they share chores with you. Do some of theirs sometime…maybe they will return the favor. I know alot of my friends assign specific chores for each partner…so if that’s you and you have some extra time…maybe help relieve their stressful day by giving them one less thing they have to do.
14.) Tell them to dress up because your going out. Surprise them with that new restaurant. Yanno the one on top of that building in downtown or at that new casino…(Just a guess we have alot of both around here. Just maybe something unique?)
15.) Cigars. If your man is into it. Get him a nice cigar.
16.) Plan a trip to go see a family member they haven’t seen in a while. Whether it be a parent, a sibling, a grandparent, a cousin, aunts and uncles. Family is important. Don’t forget to go see them!
17.) Go see that friend they haven’t seen in awhile! Same idea. I feel like we don’t see our friends enough…unless they’re our coworkers. Love you guys too though :p <3
18.) Surprise them with…. Night sledding!!!!! If your lucky like we are and the snow came and never went away ».« LOL. Tubing? Snowboarding? Load up the car grab some hot cocoa (which you can find at a local gas station if you lazy.) Don’t forget to dress warm.
19.) Go try one of those movie theatres that serve food and beverages. The one near us is called The Movie Tavern!.
20.) Indoor go-karts! Race time!
21.) Meet them for lunch.…if you can. If not surprise then with a premade lunch to sometime.
22.) Make them a playlist of some of the songs you both used to jam out too when you first got together.
23.) Listen to them. Ask yourself are you really listening to them? Do you really let yourself absorb into their life? Do you ask them about their day? Okay so you asked how their day was….did you ask what they liked about it? What their favorite part was? If anything funny happened? What parts sucked?
Don’t fall into the regular it was okay how was yours gig……really dig in. Get to know them more each day. Be a bigger part of that day by really wanting to be there and being there to listen.
24.) Watch their favorite show…instead of yours. If you are one of those people…share the love.
25.) Go out for breakfast. Diners are so charming and full of the best greasiest breakfast bundle of love you will ever get. Also waffle houses are cool too.
26.) Get all the ice and snow off their car too. Its the little things!
27.) Pick up baked goods! Everyone loves surprise donuts! Pastries! Canolis!.
28.) Bake a dessert yourself! Maybe an old favorite or something new just for fun!
29.) Technology takes over. Its 2017… We all know it. Suggest a quiet book reading night. If you don’t have any books lying around, Library’s still exist and I am sure they would appreciate the company.
30.) Invite family or friends over to you. Don’t be hermits! Have a movie night or plan a dinner. It can even be themed with a dish to pass.
31.) Try a new at home activity together. They are free! Duh! Try doing a yoga work out together or learn a dance. Youtube is great for stuff like that. Maybe I will even find some good examples to share with you guys. I am almost positive it will bring laughter.
32.) Local brewery or wine tasting sesh. Theres so many new places popping up everywhere! Support local. Support dreams.
33.) Make a cheese plate! Be fancy at home.
34.) Visit a park you would normally go to in warmer weather. I am sure they are just as beautiful when the snow falls!
35.) Find pictures from when you first got together and talk about the memories that they bring.
36.) Thank them for just being them. Thank them for the truth they bring and the light they share.
37.) Make a blanket fort. I know it is probably overrated on the internet but is it really ever??? Blanket forts are for indoor camping in the winter. Make an event out of it. You can roast marshmellows on the stove.
Send pictures of yours so I can be filled with laughter and joy <3.
38.) Compliment them 138273282372723 different ways because love deserves that. Don’t let them forget all the ways they are amazing for being them. How they are unique, driven, loving, patient (with you), how fun they are, what they mean to you. What YOU like about THEM. Reasons you still fall for them every day. Tell them those reasons through compliments.
Remember to love.